Confidence isn’t walking into a room thinking that you’re better than anyone. It’s walking in knowing that you don’t have to compare yourself to anyone.
You are not above and below anyone that’s confidence when you can get to the place in your life where the comparison is dead, where you are good enough not to others but to yourself that is confidence.
You just need to change your mindset confidence can be developed in many ways, you can start with your physiology or posture. if I asked you what a confident person looked like would you be able to tell me of course, they standing tall, they make eye contact and their head is up not down.
Anyone can develop confidence but you have to work on it. Even the majority of shy people have moments where they aren’t shy for example around family, friends, and partners. So the shyness is selective which means you can make confidence permanent if you consciously decide to be that person and do the things you do around those you trust the most.
Confidence doesn’t mean you are loud, it isn’t about being the one that has to be noticed, it’s the opposite. It’s knowing you’re great without having to be seen. It’s the silent winner or the humble champion. If you lack confidence you can change into a confident person.
But remember you have to be committed to finding the answers to unlock the greatest version of yourself.